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Ebunilo Chizoba Catherine's avatar

Good stuff. I love your writing, honesty and how much this glorifies God and represents humanity in all the practical ness

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Thank you for always coming back, really. Your feedbacks really warm my heart, I'm not even kidding 🥹

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Ebunilo Chizoba Catherine's avatar

Girlie, it’s so easy! You have to see yourself through my lens. I’m in awe of your storytelling prowess and flow. You can’t do mediocre even if you try. Excellent always

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

I'm screamingggggg😭

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Sakina Carter's avatar

I second this

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Goodytwoshoes's avatar

How much do I pay for a hundred more bars?🌚🤣

I love the part where you said something about leaning into grace - not as an excuse for sin, but as strength to walk in holiness, which is our nature in Christ.

God bless you, ma'am 🙏. Loads of love.💕💕

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Many more bars, just for you! No payment required 😂. I'm also happy you had something to hold onto from this!

Thank you so much, Sis. Love you plenty 🥹😍

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Namwinga's avatar

Sex has really become so casual.

It's actually difficult nowadays to have a Godly relationship

Lord help us, 31 and still waiting for marriage.

Am not keeping myself for my husband but I want to honor God with my body and my life..

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Faveey's world 🙈's avatar

I'm definitely subscribing because this is the real TEA, 😔🛐❤️and this was very timely because tell me why my hormones have been acting up for days now and I've been praying to God and all but this as just a confirmation of victory. Konji shegeee✋😂

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Oh my!!! I laughed so much at this comment 🤣. Divine Favour, I love you!🫂

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Faveey's world 🙈's avatar

I think I love u moreeee🥺😭😔

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Angel Leonard's avatar

This is so beautiful to read.

In a sex-perverse world of extremes, where you're either having casual sex like madddd or you're disgusted at the thought of it, this was just the word in season.

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Sis, Your observation!!! Both extremes are so toxic really. Pff. God help us! Thank you so much for reading. 🫂

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Mercy Nwabinwe's avatar

You just earned a subscriber girl!

I love the honesty in every word.💝

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Thank you. 🥰❤️

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Oluwatoyin Arifayan's avatar

Thank you for your transparency 🥹

You know something about authenticity, it’s so attractive.

I really celebrate you for being honest with me

I see myself in your writing, thank you for this beautiful piece ♥️♥️♥️

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Itunu Taiwo's avatar

Lovely lovely post as usual💕Especially in a hyper sexualised world like ours, but the good news is that we can do all things through Christ that strengthens us.

Grace! The Grace that’s stronger than sin. God’s grace has kept us thus far and will continue to keep us.

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Sefunmi Debbie's avatar

Beautiful! ❤️Thank you, thank you.

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Sakina Carter's avatar

Debola strikes again

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Kelechi Alagwu's avatar

This particular letter has lingered for a while on my face not untill today that i choosed to open it.

Ah! A itch we must not scratch.📌

I wish I can comment you into a corner where only you can see or read my comment.😌

But it's all good. SUBSCRIBED✅🤗❤️

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Thank you for reading!🙌🏽

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Unathi's avatar

The honestly ✋🏾✋🏾✋🏾✋🏾.

Needed this read in all sincerity because these past few weeks I was saying Lord abeg😭😭😭

Thank you so much for this beautiful and timely read🥺

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

God's got us🥹🫂. I'm glad you found this helpful! Thank you🙏🏽

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Aribisala Esther's avatar

Mehnnnn. Thank you so much ma.

The last statement you made has always been ringing in my heart, anytime the thought of marriage comes to mind and it's true.

Really, it's not just sex. God himself didn't approve it for the unmarried, so who are we to say it's normal for boys and girls.. 🙄

It is well, God will help us.

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Esther, my darling! I see you. You're absolutely right. May God keep helping us please him. God bless you for reading. 💛

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Glory's Corner's avatar

I'm just waiting for tomorrow 🥹

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

E don come o😂

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Glory's Corner's avatar

It's not just sex! Period. Beautiful piece, Adebola 💜

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Glory! Thank you so much. 🫂

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Abimbola(dara)'s avatar

Very very proud of you.

Thank you for being honest.❤️

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Adébọ́lá's avatar

Thank you for always. 🫂🫂🫂

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