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thegirlWunmi's avatar

Hm!

I couldn't agree more!

You see, the whole brouhaha about sex these days is disturbing. Not even because of the desire for it (as you rightly pointed out), but because of the views warped around it.

The last two months have had me having deep conversations with people, myself and God about what sex ought to be like. And, it had me realizing that the world's take on intimacy is not for me!

Wo! This matter long!😭😂😂

If I've never been sure about anything in this life, I'm absolutely sure that I want to stay subscribed to God's tenets on intimacy and to live it out with someone who shares this same view!❤️💯

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Aribisala Esther's avatar

That's it!

Thank you so much ma.

How would one even Include stuffs like "panties ripped" in a godly context? That's serious. Hoping to communicate what exactly?

God have mercy. 🤲

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The Candid Corner's avatar

You know in Nigerian homes, this kind of things isn't talked about enough. As someone who's trying to navigate, this helped.

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The beloved🌷's avatar

Thank you so so much for breaking this down the way you did❤️

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Toluwani's avatar

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾. It resonates with me. I always found it very uncomfortable to read scenes like that.

It will take her time to know the difference between the worldly view and the godly view on sex since she's being reading it for a long time. May God help her and us all in Jesus name 🙏🏾

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Glory's Corner's avatar

I have no words but you truly captured it all! Thank you for writing, Adebola 👏

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DeeDee Amaechi's avatar

Thank you for this honestly. I was having a conversation with Cassia the other day about how Substack is becoming something else. In the bid to be vulnerable and relatable, people are leaving out discretion.

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Omotola ☺️'s avatar

Thank youuuuu🥹for enlighteninh your dearest gentle readers and for the edification too.

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Lucy Anih's avatar

I know the article you’re talking about 🤣

I remember reading it and thinking the writer actually needs to confront their view about God and their understanding of him unless the person is not a Christian sha.

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Oluwatoyin Arifayan's avatar

Wowww, this is quite serious🤣🤣🤣

I totally agree with you Adebola.

We should not be the reason for others fall even as we try to express ourselves.

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Jubilee's avatar

Very timely, thank you very much for sharing

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Goodytwoshoes's avatar

I love how every thought you share finds its resting place in the Word of God , a true checkpoint of truth.

This isn't just relatable, but edifying.

Weldone, my "gifted hands writer." I'm always drawn to read whatever you share.

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Temiloluwa Owasanoye's avatar

So true! Well written, Debs!

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Osasere Imafidon's avatar

This was a lovely biblically-sound read.

Thanks Adebola

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thegirlWunmi's avatar

Welldone boo! You nailed this one.

Right in the head🔥

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Confessions of POI's avatar

Thank you ❤️🥹

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