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Mar 8Liked by Adebola Akindele

Whooooossshhhhhh❤️❤️

Praise the LORD, sombadi..!!

’Debola pieced this so well (of course, God, in this girrrlll, never disappoints)

Kini mo fe so bayi? 😂 Pardon my vernacular. I'm just short of words.

There's a call to heal and be vulnerable. It's the only way we can appreciate God's gift of people.

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My girl🤭🥰. Listennnn, thank you for the call from the other day!!! You no see the evidence?😂 God is good. Thank you for reading 💛.

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Mar 8Liked by Adebola Akindele

Your vulnerability stood out to me. Thank you for sharing, Debola.

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Thank you, Temiloluwa, for always reading 💛.

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This stood out for me… “I was not outrightly neglecting my walk with God, but I might as well have been,”

Because yes, I can relate. 🥹 Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, Debola 🌸

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Bless your heart, Sakina! Thank you for reading. God is helping us🫶🏽.

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Mar 9Liked by Adebola Akindele

“God doesn’t want to merely convict us of wrong rather He wants to help us do right”… that really stood out to me😩 Thanks for sharing Debola 👏💜

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Thank you for reading, Chisom. I truly appreciate. Glad you had something to hold unto. 💛

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Mar 8Liked by Adebola Akindele

Ade, You came to drag my wig with this letter!!!

This letter was for me! I do have internal struggles with Vulnerability but I am learning to receive love without putting those walls up all the time.

Thank you so much for your Vulnerability in this letter, Adebola.

This was a great read and I am definitely not reading this once.

Thank you for sharing.❤️

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My Bimbs! God is helping us. Thank you for reading. The part about dragging your wig? It's a repel effect, God dragged mine first lol. I appreciate your readership. 💛

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Hey Adebola, thank you for sharing with such vulnerability.

Maybe what was missing during this period was you trying to deal with situations on your own. You didn’t carry along the one person that could carry you through it safely.

I’ve been here before and I wonder why I have to reflect to realize I didn’t let Him in during these times.

Now I carry Him along as I go.

Consciously and intentionally.

Speaking out loud my frustrations and telling Him for example ‘how I’m not in the mood’. I report myself to Him a lot and I’ve seen great changes.

God is available to help and He can take it. As long as you stay connected and allow Him in no matter how hard.

I hope this helps. Wishing you a better month 🤍

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Reading this comment for the third time, so I could internalise your counsel😭. Why, thank you for sharing! This is very wholesome and helpful. Bless your heart!💗

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Amen Sis! I'm glad this helped.

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Mar 8Liked by Adebola Akindele

For each question you asked, the Holy Spirit had me search my heart to remember very recent times I acted in such manners, consciously & unconsciously. The Lord is able to help me do right like you said😪

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Mar 8Liked by Adebola Akindele

Thank you, Debola, for this reflective piece. I'll be pondering on it for a while.

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Thank you for reading, Faith. About pondering on this for a while...I guess that makes two of us😭.

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Mar 8Liked by Adebola Akindele

😂

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